Try reading this. Here.
There are a few people who still cannot see the sacrifice of the parents or the players who strive to excel but do no harm to others. What can I say? I hope life will bring you the lessons where you can finally learn the consequence of your actions. I don't wish you an awakening as traumatic as this but one just enough to wake you up.
It is really quite simple. The selfish acts of a very few people have kept Malaysian chess from progressing for over 30 plus years. And it is time we put that behind us and curb their further influence in our community.