Tell them to play chess. :)
On Jan 1, 2011 the Malaysian Tigers took the Singaporean Lions in chess for the first time in 10 years. And we can do it again on our home ground at the next outing if we remember this.
If your sunshine wants far outstrip your cold morning desire, have a talk with yourself. Then have a lot more talks with yourself. Convince number one that you can succeed--and you will succeed. If you don't believe in you, why should anyone else?
-- Tom Hopkins