I am always captivated by American Idol. Week after the week the contestants are brought to the stage and asked to unblock. To dig deep inside to find the answers; to own the stage.
I believe the answer to that question of finding our own GM lies there too. For us to look at how we are self sabotaging ourselves.
Finger pointing is not going to get us anywhere. Do we want the same thing? That is the question isnt it? If so then the question becomes what is the best system to get us there? What is the best training and coaching methods? What has worked and what hasnt? What do we need to change?